As well as a photographer, I'm a successful entrepreneur (in an unrelated field) with a creative streak, a wicked imagination, a love of sensation, and a desire to create amazing experiences for myself and those around me. I'm based in London, but love to travel and do so regularly. 

Perhaps because of that combination - creativity, hedonism and a natural tendency to follow my own path, I'm also what is known (for those not in the scene) as a "Dom".  I'm not domineering, but I learned the hard way that I'm happiest taking a dominant role in relationships, both in and out of the bedroom.... and I enjoy the games that follow!

Indeed, I enjoy many elements of what is known as BDSM.  That term actually stands for three pairings: Bondage and Domination; Domination and Submission; Sadism and Masochism.  Consensuality is central to all three - I would never do anything to anyone against their will.  Indeed, fetish and BDSM people tend to be more thoughtful and respectful in these matters than most.   It's more about adding an extra dimension and intensity to ones interactions, than any kind of extreme. 

As Dominants go, I'm intuitive, refined and forceful, rather than loud or brash. You won't find me issuing crude orders if I don't know you, but I can be extremely firm and challenging once the right level of trust has been established.  I also like shiny, pretty things, and I'm in a relationship with a wonderful girl who's also a deliciously perverted fetish model (Tallulah Taboo). We're both very active in the London scene and potentially open to meeting people together if the chemistry is right. (She is bi. Especially after a gin & tonic!).

All this is very important to me, but it's just one part of my life. It's a world full of wonderful people, things to learn, dancing, fine wine, scuba diving, sailing, rainforests, white sandy beaches when it's raining in London, log fires, and flying down mountains on skis. Having come this far to explore our dreams, there's no reason to limit oneself to one dimension.

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